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Mama(n)datory

Living motherhood fearlessly

I've tried weaning Sofia a couple of times. Tak tertahan sakit badan, tidur tak lena, kerja tak berjalan. Stress, tahu? And when you're stressed, the milk supply goes down. Not that I have a good supply though; not  as much as the time I used to nurse Mayesa.

But that didn't bother her at all. I'm forever hers.

When I badly wanted to wean, it didn't happen. Now that I played it cool, like "yeah, go ahead. I'll just lie down for hours, don't make me get up to get anything else for you"-kind of cool, I guess she eventually got bored.

She is such an attention seeker, this little one. The lack of attention I gave to her might be the reason she left me off for something that's more fun. Atau mungkin sebab malam tu dia menyusu sampai tertidur dan gigit katup kuat mama sampai mama jerit tepuk-tepuk muka dia. Read:light taps.

September 8th, 2017.
That early morning feed was her last.

All I had to do when she asked to be nursed was to play-pretend my boobs was in pain because she bit me the previous night. She'll lift my shirt up to peek, then she'll just go "huhhhhh" with an annoyed face and leave me to get her bottle.

I thought nap time would be tough, but surprisingly caught her napping while holding on to her bubu(baby doll) that evening. Tidur malam pula she just toss and turn a little bit before she sleeps through the night. Never happened before, this sttn with her. Ya Allah, you are such an easy baby, Sofia.

I remember having quite a rough time weaning Mayesa but I did weaned her at 22months.
Now that it has been a week, I can officially say Sofia's weaned - at 21 months!

Now I can regain my good night's sleep.
I'm free!
I AM FREE!
(Prays that I wont be knocked up so easily again, post-wean)
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Mayesa's turning 5 next year. It is finally time to get her registered into a pre-school.

I know ramai yang dah mula hantar anak-anak pergi tadika dari umur 4 tahun. As I am a stay-at-home-mom, I figured why not I just teach her the basics and only enroll her into a pre-school when she turns 5.

And I did.

And Alhamdulillah Mayesa now knows her ABC's and 123's both in reading and writing. She's good in arts. Dia suka menyanyi, menari and role-playing. She loves to draw and paint. She can also read and write a little bit of Jawi; can clearly recites dzikir and memorized a couple of short dua's as well as the basic of wudhu' and solat. I am going to start teaching her to spell and read next.

I think I did good.
She did great!
Syukur. Syukur Alhamdulillah.

For the time being I've shortlisted only a few pre-school in USJ/Subang Jaya area:
Smart Reader Kids
REAL Kids
Sri Comel
Krista
Brainy Bunch
Little Caliph

I've only visited Smart Reader Kids and I am liking it so far. Mayesa loves it too, but I can't say much since I've yet to visit the rest of the pre-school. I will definitely make a different post on the pros and cons, the likes and dislikes of each pre-school once I have done my research.

Or perhaps I might stumbled upon or choose other pre-schools which didn't even cross my mind at first, no? We'll see.
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Now that we have two daughters, people have been questioning when's the little guy arriving?
Petik jari, muncul lah nanti. As if it's THAT easy to make a baby and to grow another little human.

There were talks between my husband and I. And since he has been the only guy (and still is) in this family unit, of course he wishes for at least another baby (boy) to be part of the family.

Mom once (could be more than once) told me "don't ever say no to another baby if your husband wants it. Dia lelaki." Deep, deep meaning, that one ma.

I am not saying no. I am just not ready. InshaaAllah ada rezeki, tak tolak tapi kalau ikut hati, cukuplah dua ni je.

I fear I will ever be ready for another, for a triple threat. Not anytime soon.

Mayesa was a cesarean baby, and I fully breastfed her up to a little less than 2 years. A month after weaning, I conceived Sofia. She was delivered vaginally and is still nursing up til now. Sofia is almost 2 now so we are in the midst of weaning within this couple of months, and I hope to not get knocked up as quickly as I did last time post-wean.

I need time to myself.
I am tired.
I look like a mess.
I need to socialize.
I need to get back in shape and in better health.
I want to travel.
And the list goes on..

"Don't you want the same for me too?", I asked him.
Before he gets to answer the first question, "Don't you want to own me again instead of the baby hogging me all the time?"

Ok. Lets take it slow, give it 5 years.

WIN!

I'm retaining as twodotsmama!

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Dulu masa zaman sekolah rendah, cikgu selalu tanya "bila dewasa nanti nak jadi apa?". Or remember the biodata book where it was passed around to be filled up?

Nama: Hana
Umur/Kelas: 3 Kekwa
Makanan kegemaran: Pasta, Nasi Lemak & Mom's cooking
Minuman kegemaran: Sirap Limau
Cita-cita: Doktor, Pramugari, Guru

Tetttttttt!

If you eventually became one from your then ambition list, Alhamdulillah congratulations. But if you did not, like me, h-to-the-olla!

I have worked at numerous places, with quite a number of different jobscopes. I love the paycheck, the experienced as well as the knowledge that I have gained. It's just that I was never a team player. I was never keen to step on the career ladder unlike most of you ladies.

I somehow have set in my heart that I will just be a housewife someday.

And I did.
And I am happy and Alhamdulillah grateful.

Why, you ask?

I'll share in another post.

Now let me just share a snippet of conversation I had with Mayesa the other day.

Mayesa, What do you want to be when you grow up?

I want to be a doctor, and.. a princess.
Princess Belle!

Now that is one unique ambition.
She gotta find herself a prince then; hopefully not a beast.

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Mama : Ok, let's go to bed. Papa balik lewat malam ni.
Mayesa : Mama, can we just sleep here tonight?
Mama : We sleep upstairs ok kakak? Kalau tidur sini, papa kena dukung kakak and adik naik atas pula nanti. Siapa  pula nak angkat mama?
Mayesa : Takpe mama. Papa boleh dukung mama sekali.
Mama : Patah lah pinggang papa dukung mama.
Mayesa : Alaa masa kahwin dulu boleh dukung. Sama je lah nanti papa dukung mama.
Mama : Hahaha. Ok lah nanti kakak suruh papa dukung mama juga ok?
Mayesa : Mengada je. Masa kahwin boleh. Sekarang patah pinggang - patah pinggang pula.

What a slap in the face.

It's true though. We tend to ignore the intimacy we once had before kids came into the picture. Bukan kata nak salahkan anak-anak, atau penat kerja, atau umur dah lanjut; somehow the intimacy level decreased to such a low point if not none at all.

Mungkin tak semua pasangan macam ni (Alhamdulillah good for you) but us, yes us, kinda lost some sparks. Don't really know who to blame but ourselves. We are defintely happy together, please don't think or du'a otherwise. Cuma tak ada sangat dah sweet-sweet, romantik-romantik ni. When either one made the initiative, yang lagi seorang mesti pekik 'buang tebiat ni dah kenapa?'. LOL

We had a talk about this, and a quick suggestion we both immediately agreed upon is that we need more time to ourselves. One, on our own, meaning solo. To unwind, to destress from our many responsibilities. Two, as a couple, as husband  and wife. To re-live the sparks, to keep our love growing and not just slowly dreading nor dying as a boring-unromantic-old-couple.

But we keep procrastinating and tak tahu lah bila nak have some quiet time to just relax and unwind a little without the kids tagging along for a while.

But first thing first, about my daughter's request....

I still dont't get a lift into bed.

I doubt I'm going to have one.
LOL.
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